If you are in a Dysfunctional Partnership, most likely you have been stockpiling. When you stockpile, you don’t address a conflict, you store it. Sometimes you sweep conflicts under a rug; other times you stockpile and then dump them on your partner when you have reached a breaking point. Or maybe you are stockpiling and spreading—telling everyone but the person you have the conflict with. Don’t stockpile today. Either deal with a conflict if it comes up or truly let it go and forget about it.